I am beyond ecstatic to announce that on Thursday, September 17th I will be releasing my debut poetry book, Falling in Love with Picking Myself up. I hope you will join me at Upstage in Charlotte, NC where I will be featuring and reading poems from the book thanks to Touch One Productions! More details are coming soon! For now, here’s a sneak peek at the cover!
In April I participated in National Poetry Writing Month (NaPoWriMo) which is a challenge to write 30 poems within the 30 days of the month. This year was the first I ever completed the challenge (yay!!!). I didn’t wind up posting all of the poems on this blog but you can read the ones I did HERE for a limited time. Today I came across one of the poems that I feel with some editing could it could be pretty good. Thought I’d post it since it’s been a while.
Thrill of the Hunt
There’s something about
a smoky building filled
with writhing bodies
that puts me on
like any moment
I could find
who will destroy
me in the most
honey of ways,
so I lean against
the bar, cold
beer in hand,
on a lonely
I posted this on Facebook and I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts?
But can we talk about the lack of diversity in books for young adults? I swear that I have read hundreds and hundreds of books since elementary school because I adore reading (um, that BookIt program in elementary & middle school was giving us the pizza hook up which led to my beautiful relationship with reading) but of those hundreds of books that I have read I can probably count on one hand how many have been either written by black authors OR had a black main character. And I’m not talking about those “Paster needs a boo” type books either. I’m talking about legit books for teens that don’t involve a teenage pregnancy plot line or whatever passes as “marketable”. Most YA books by black authors that I have read are either super religious OR have a tendency to have extremely graphic sexual content OR takes place during the times of slavery.
So these are my questions:
1. Where are all the books about the kids who looked like me/acted like me/talked like me?
2. How can we go about creating a market for young adult books written by black authors who feature black characters?
3. Does this bother anyone else or is it just me?
Happy NaPoWriMo! One whole week of writing poems every single day complete! Here is today’s poem:
The Divinity of Spots
Mom, I can not figure out what the ladybugs mean.
The morning after you went into the hospital I noticed
them crawling on the blinds of my bedroom window,
the lamp shade, the basin of the bathroom sink,
the counter in the kitchen. I took their presence as
a sign, those mascots of luck, that you would be
healed. When you needed to have a machine push
the air into your rebellious lungs, I prayed to
the freckled wings of the ladybugs, making deities
of them, and they obliged. The last really good day
you sat up in the recliner reading the hospital lunch
menu, your glasses crooked, I thanked the divinity of
those spots for giving your body back. It took eleven
days for me to realize my mistake, the last five of
which I spent sleeping atop a yoga mat on the floor
of your hospice room. It was there, beside your bed,
where your son discovered a tiny feather, held it up,
pinched between two fingers, hoping for a miracle.
I, bitter from the betrayal of the ladybugs, told him
it was too small to belong to an angel. I think I was
trying to teach him what I had only just learned: that
you should not make a god out of every beautiful
thing that will let you pray to it. So mom, what does
it mean that it’s been nearly three months since your
passing and I am still finding shells of ladybugs at
the foot of my bed?
Alright, so it’s almost 4 a.m. and I just finished my 6/30 poem. This one took a lot of time because I wrote it twice. The prompt was from the National Poetry Month group that I’m a part of on Facebook. When I first decided to take this challenge I went about it in a very casual way, all my commandments were simple things like “write poems, run, read books”, pretty bad right? So I scratched that and decided to dig a little deeper and this is the end result.
My 10 Commandments
- Thou shalt not hide anymore empty wine bottles in trophy cases beneath the bed, at the bottom of the laundry hamper, tucked between the comforter and sheet. You have started to drink more than you feel these days. It is a lulling alternative. It keeps you from panicking about the way you’ve been craving more popped corks.
- Thou shalt not fuck him again. You always offer the whole of your supple body to He Who Only Wants A Soft Place To Hold His Hardness. Your body is more than a warm mouth meant to suck the salt from his flesh.
- Think of thy mother often. Remember that she taught you as a child how to make wishes on the wings of dandelions. Now, her memory is a garden of yellow, blossoming in your chest.
- Let the secret of your sixteenth year be an ink spill. Graffiti his touch on every billboard in his city, tag his neighbors doors, the ceiling on his wife’s side of the bed. Do not strip the truth from the canvas of your flesh, it is an ugly work of art, but it is yours.
- Thou shalt no longer fear being loved and the way that means to be an open airway, drawing in that which will sustain this timid heart. You have been holding your breath since 2008. Breathe.
- Learn thy stretch marks. You have always taught the flesh on your body that it needs to be quieter, willed it to be more subtle, less fabric. This skin has wondered what a body that has never shaken a staircase or popped seams in a fitting room feels like. This body is heavy. This body has been waiting for you to be strong enough to carry its weight. This body says learn to love these god damn stretch marks. This body has learned to love its loud. This body is waiting for you to stop walking so softly.
- Thou shalt not feel like a whore for having casual sex. Be unashamed of the way your hips have been the slow curl of smoke rising from the flame of his, or her naked. You have given your moans and amens to tongues that have not loved more than the way you come for them. And oh, how you have loved nothing more than to show up.
- Try not to lose thy mind. At thirteen, a psychologist declared you clinically depressed. You have spent every year since, trying to flee from the thing that taught you how to run in the first place. You have been so scared of what happens to the mind when it tires of being normal. Do not waste anymore imagination on this. Stop running.
- Thou shalt not feel like less of a woman for not wanting to be a mother. It does not matter why you have made this decision. It is not a debate. You have made a choice that some may call selfish. Many will cluck their tongues at you, a reprimand, for not doing a woman’s work. You still vagina, still nurturer, still woman. Always woman.
- Thou shalt not exercise the right to remain silent. You have always kept your voice and opinions apart, afraid of the ruckus they’d create. Have been uneasy around conflict. You are finally understanding how to brave, how to say no, how to call an injustice by its name without a flinch. You have witnessed too many wailing mothers on the news to believe in silence. This is the part where you start voicing your opinions.
If you made it this far, yay! I know it’s a long one. Thanks for reading/listening! I can’t wait to come back and work on this poem once the month is done and I have more time to really dig into it!
Whew, five days in and still churning out more poems! I hope you guys are enjoying this years national poetry writing month as much as I am. Today I wrote a poem based off of this prompt by Megan Falley. We were to convince someone to stay for whatever reason. I wasn’t sure what was going to come out of it since there isn’t currently someone in the process of leaving me right now. But as many of us surely has experienced, I went through a tough breakup in the past and I channeled those thoughts and emotions while writing this. I think that asking someone to stay/being asked to stay is a hard thing to deal with because eventually you realize it was for the best that you/they don’t. I hope you enjoy!
Look How Strong I Am
So my hands can stop shaking cracks into every glass I clutch.
So my bones will no longer offer themselves to the soil.
So the words please don’t go can stop tearing holes in my throat.
So I can stop feeling like I’m in a dream, falling from the cliff of your kiss.
So I can say I am yours, I am loved.
So my legs can hold a whole body again.
So these teeth can stop finding rubies in the pulp of my lips.
So your name won’t be a whip cracking against my spine.
So I can stop thinking of all the things you’ll confiscate when you go.
So I don’t have to take inventory of my laugh, my smile, how much trust is left.
So I don’t spend every day imagining the noises of a settling building is your return.
So I can stop writing the apologies you’d owe.
So I can sleep through the storms, so I can stop being the thunder, the lightning, the cold, cold rain.
So my heart can be a calmed sea, a safe place for us gill-less to travel.
So I can say look how we have survived! We were almost two lungs of salt but stayed afloat.
So you can say loving you is hard, but I’m a better person for not giving up. Look how strong I am.
Stay, so we can both say look how strong I am. Even though neither one of us will actually be telling the truth.
Hey! Day four of #NaPoWriMo is here! I hope everyone is getting into the swing of sitting down and writing daily. Today’s poem was inspired by this prompt by Sam Gordon plus an experience I had the other day. I was in Target browsing the book section, which is always one of my favorite things to do. I was looking at all the different books enjoying how wide the variety was until I got to the “African American” section. All the books were ridiculous, with titles like Pastor Needs a Boo and Project Chick. It got me to thinking about the lack of flexibility within African American books available to the mainstream.
With Our Teeth
Who sets the standards?
Says your dark is why.
Your night sky skin is the only reason.
Yesterday I spent time with the shelves
and the books they keep,
spines standing up straight
and proud of their bodies—
adventure, action, romance, coming
of age, I reveled in all those choices.
The black books slouched,
heavy with the burden of being token,
of being cliche, a heart of ghettos
a calloused mouth,
the black books had black titles
like Honor Thy Thug and black
women in lingerie and black men
in sagging pants and isn’t that
exactly what being black has become?
Playing into a role, digging
rivers into our tongues with
our teeth, swimming in stereotypes
to avoid drowning. Isn’t that
what they expect, those standard
setters? Those cage architects,
they say here, take this and be grateful,
look at all the space we’ve given you,
you have your very own shelf in our world.
And we buy it because it is ours, it is
all we’ve been given, we invest in it,
take note of what they expect us to be
and we do better, be more, set our
own standards, let them think they
have won, while we build our own
shelves, fill them with the truths too
honest for their world. Say to them,
look at all the space we’ve let you
think was yours. Be grateful.